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Is she cheating? You wonder for the nth time as she blows you a kiss and drives to work — on a Sunday. Is she cheating or is she putting in much-needed overtime?

Here are red flags that should clue you in what your girlfriend is up to. Is she cheating or is she simply hardworking?

1. She is always doing overtime. She isn’t getting paid for it, however, so you can’t help but wonder.

2. She now enjoys doing the laundry.

3. She showers as soon as she gets home.

4. She turns into a new person in bed and suddenly tries out positions you never even thought possible. The wheelbarrow? What’s that?

5. She makes frequent grocery runs; some take as long as five hours. This is strange considering she used to do the groceries only once a week and no more than an hour each time.
6. She has bruises and scratches she couldn’t have possibly gotten at work. She’s a secretary, after all. When you asked her about them, however, she blamed the cat. You didn’t even know the two of you had gotten a cat.

So, do all six signs mean she’s cheating? If you even bother to ask, then you’ve got to be the biggest idiot in the village. For a more complete listing of signs, though, check out the book How to Catch a Cheating Spouse.

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